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dating strategy
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To help you pick up and date cute girls and not do stupid stuff
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achin65 is a new fan of Agent Julia
- achin65
purnisher is a new fan of Agent Julia
- purnisher
Give me more tips on dating
- purnisher
Give me more tips on dating
- purnisher
Hey Julia, I've been watching your videos for a while now, as I'm sure many have, for the excellent advice (I'm sure your smile and fun loving attitude aren't hurting the ratings either). But on to the purpose for emailing you.
The main issue I have is getting the conversation rolling. Bringing up a positive point of interest (compliment or otherwise) is a fine way to get her attention and then insert your name (and hopefully get hers) but then from there I'm not good at presenting topics or asking questions that spark conversation. I'm normally pretty good at 'active listening' when a girl does start opening up but just not so great at getting them to that point.
This second issue probably isn't an issue that can help the majority but I saw this girl walking around the apartment complex late at night with her dog both last night and the night before and I was wanting to introduce myself and see where it led. I'm a little weary to attempt talking to her though because not sure how she'll respond to a random guy approaching her in the parking lot around that time of night.
- tflickinger
deertay is a new fan of Agent Julia
- deertay
So I made a new friend, and a few weeks back we were kickin' it at a local bar with some other folks. After a few rounds she asks to see my tattoos, compliments me on my good hygiene, then her hands start wandering a little south of the border. Long story short, I see her myspace page and find out she's engaged. Should I stop hanging out with her to avoid becoming a "Jodi"? Or should I just say something to her about it and hope things stay kosher?
- deertay
diddy is a new fan of Agent Julia
- diddy
You're the cutest...wow! Where do you bartend?
- lew
lew is a new fan of Agent Julia
- lew
timbo34 is a new fan of Agent Julia
- timbo34
climax is a new fan of Agent Julia
- climax
joaks is a new fan of Agent Julia
- joaks
sixersfan is a new fan of Agent Julia
- sixersfan
Hey! First off, I just want to say I like what I've seen on your blog (otherwise I wouldn't have bothered becoming a fan). I'm not really that great at asking advice but since you seem to be able to break it down fairly well, here it goes: I'm having a "nice guy" issue. I don't know what it is about me or where it comes from but the women I meet seem to just look at me and go "oh, hey, he'd make a great friend!" I'm not complaining about making friends, I love them dearly, but I what can I do if I want more? I meet a lady, we get to talking, make each other laugh, have tons in common, and then I end up being the guy she calls to gush about this new guy she met or I am the one who sits up on the phone at all hours when her current boy toy goes out with friends and doesn't call. When I do bring up taking things farther than friendship, I usually get told that she doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Am I being too much the gentleman? I mean, I'm still a virgin at 25, so its not like I'm just aiming to jump into bed! I'm just getting tired of being everyones favorite "guy friend". Is that so wrong?
- slimskeeter
Hey Julia,
Fleet Week is coming up, so there's going to b a few thousand sailors running loose in NYC. Watch Out!
- deertay
mp is a new fan of Agent Julia
- mp
hi. i am wondering if you have any tips on how to pick up a girl in troy...
- singleagent
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- singleagent
rich7373 is a new fan of Agent Julia
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- texomguy
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- wigeee
tim2509 is a new fan of Agent Julia
- tim2509
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- jmays
slimskeeter is a new fan of Agent Julia
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