Whether in life or in love, if you are always known as the "nice guy" with all female friends, you will keep coming in last (the saying was created for a reason). To break the stereotype everyone associates with you, you don't have to become a jerk overnight---you just need to grow some balls. Here's how:

1. Stop agreeing with everyone and everything. This doesn't mean you need to argue with everyone, but have your own opinions, speak up sometimes and stop yessing everyone to death.

2. Don't bend over backwards for everyone and learn how to say No. Avoid "parasitic" relationships where you give, give, give and never get. If you kkeep going out of your way for someone and they never return the favor, they will be shocked when you finally lay the law down and say no. Tell them you are busy draining your keg.

3. Stand up for yourself. If a co-worker steals your idea, you're not being "nice" by letting it slide, you're being a pansy. If a woman doesn't show up for a date and doesn't even bother to call beforehand, don't try to reschedule, just write her off. Disrespect leads to more disrespect.

4. Don't dote when unsolicited. If you are dating, make sure she feels the same way when you give her a gift or take her out. You want to be appreciated, not used for how nice you are. Right after you give her the diamonds, she'll tell you what a great "friend" you are.

5. Continue being nice, but not TOO nice. You can still be a gentlemen, but you don't have to live forever being a doormat.