What makes some older women so appealing? It could be the thrill or your weird obsession with Mrs.Robinson and the Graduate. Or, maybe it's knowing that she has some experience and can probably teach you a thing or two. Regardless of the reason, when you see a hot older woman and want to approach her, make sure you bring your cougar game.

She's mature, independent, and looking for someone who will compliment her lifestyle so it is important that you come off as confident and in charge. If you come off as clingy, whiny or like a frat boy in heat, you can be sure that she won't even give you a second look. However, don't try to act that you are overly mature, a lot of the reason she wants you back is because you are younger and can have fun.

Be up front with the type of relationship you want. Just because she is older doesn't mean she is looking for a long-term relationship or a father for her children. Instead, they might just be looking for a hot guy to have fun with. If you want someone for the long haul to or to be your baby mama, then a cougar might not be right for you.

Be yourself. A cougar has probably dealt with many men in her life and has no time for a guy who is immature. Don't use your usual game or pickup lines on her, be direct and straightforward. If you are lucky enough to bring her home, make sure you hide the Playstation and dirty clothes.