Women are not aroused in the same manner as a man. While men get aroused at the sight of an object that they desire, women are aroused by the thought. Millions of woman use fantasies during masturbation in order to orgasm. In fact, studies show that most women cannot achieve an orgasm without using their mind. Yes, that means we fantasize during sex too, but many women are afraid they'll hurt their guy's feelings or are afraid of the fantasy itself.

Here's a list of the top 5 fantasies women have:

Being Ravaged: Sometimes woman just want to have their clothes ripped off and be forced against the wall. It makes us feel desired. Many women complain that their men are too respectful. Slow and sensual sex is great, but every once in awhile you just need to force us to submission. Trust us, we won't feel disrespected.

Casual S/M: There is a difference between strangulation and handcuffs. Gentle S/M is a more comfortable approach to this sexual taboo and can be more playful then dangerous. Fantasizing about s/m is about playing with power in a relationship, which women are inclined to do. Being tied or tying someone else plays on control. Whether she likes to be dominated or wants to dominate you, either option will be fun for both of you.

Caught on Camera: This is a voyeur fantasy: What makes it more titillating is that you get to watch yourselves, which is a big turn on. Being caught naked on camera is exhilarating and the jealousy she's internalized over your porn stash for the last three years can be erased because now she'll be part of your collection. However, in today's electroweb world broaching this subject can be tricky. While most women are very interested in the idea, they're wearier of the tape getting out.

Office Romps: Women, more than men, are aware that very bad things can happen if you have sex with a coworker. So, what's the next best thing? Women are very good at using their imagination and will often leave office sex to their mind. So, the next time you catch a woman staring at her desk, she may not be thinking of the next meeting in her calendar, but rather having hot, raunchy sex with a colleague.

Strap One On: One of the most popular fantasies among women is literally being the man for one night. The empowerment for a women to be the aggressor and her man being so vulnerable; knowing that she's in the position that is traditionally dominated by a man is an incredible turn-on. If the thought of your girl wearing a strap-on freaks you out, just say no.

The bottom line is that women do fantasize, but remember that what a woman fantasizes about isn't necessarily something she wants to happen in reality. The point of fantasies is that they are safe. Ask her about them and don't be judgmental. Find a way to work together in fulfilling each others fantasies and you'll both have a much happier sex life.