If you have ever wanted to crack the code to figuring out female rules and guidelines, it is a simple logic to follow; selfishness, insecurity and jealousy amongst friends. While most women will claim that they do not follow the same guidelines and appear to be like a man, few can actually hold true to that when in a threatening situation. Knowing the game is half the battle.


First Come, First Serve.

If a woman sees a man she finds attractive, she automatically has "dibs" on them. This means that none of her friends should go after the same guy. If the guy is not interested in the girl, but is interested in one of her friends, both should proceed with caution. Eventhough nothing ever happened between the two, she scoured you out first. Some female friends might be unwilling to even talk to you in this situation and if she is willing to talk, she will never bring you around the friend. Chances of this relationship lasting; slim to none, but you can always attempt at a one nighter.

Attack When Threatened.

When a woman sees another attractive woman, it is her first instinct to find her fault and point it out to whomever is nearby. This comes from an insecurity that many women have to make themselves feel better for whatever it is they think they are lacking. If she focuses on her breats, you can be sure she wishes hers were half as big. If you find a woman who doesn't do this; she's a keeper. If your woman does this, attempt at building up her confidence and explaining that you find it immature when women rag on other women.

Belittle the Competition.

When she talks about a friend of hers repetedly or asks you whether you find another friend hot or not, this is her way of showing her insecurity and jealousy simultaneously. In her mind she is hating on the friend for a particular reason or is suspicsious that you find her more attractive, yet she will phrase it in a non-threatening way, such as "Didn't you think Jane was acting slutty last night?" Either way you answer this, be prepared for an argument. The best way to combat this is to listen and agree with whatever she says. Don't neglect to tell her how much better looking she is than the friend.