If the saying "nice guys finish last" has become your motto and life story, then you probably spend time wondering why the chicks keep flocking to the bad boys who treat them like garbage? Fortunately for you, the explanations are simple and the solution is even simpler:

She doesn't feel as if a good guy can protect her like a bad boy can. Some women see a guy with nice manners as annoying and wimpy, which can lead them to think that, even though he will treat her like a goddess, he wouldn't be able to hold his own when it comes to protecting her honor. She might think that nice guys are boring, whereas a bad boy will always keep her guessing what will come next. In regards to the bedroom, women may feel that a good guy will be predictable, boring or way too gentle, and that a bad boy will make her feel like a sexy porn star because he will be more aggressive.

The good news is that there is something you can do to steal away the girl of your dreams from the leather-clad bad boy that she is currently lusting after. You don't have to change and turn into a jerk, but you need to work on your approach. The key is putting on a air of cockiness and not going out of your way the next time you see a woman. Don't drool all over her and stare like a puppy dog. Don't go up to her and mumble your words. Notice that she is there and make eye contact, but don't give her too much attention and don't grin. Keep a serious look on your face and glance at her like you notice her but she isn't anything special. This will make her instantly interested because you seem mysterious. The allure of a bad boy is that you never know what he is thinking and you wonder if he is thinking of you.

Once you know she keeps looking at you, then you can approach her. Keep your wording sparse and simple introduce yourself or ask her name and say you noticed her across the room and felt compelled to talk to her. This will open the conversation and make her feel flattered. While there is no need to pretend you are a complete jerk, just the subtle glances and careless approach should hook her and you can go back to your charming ways later.