The g spot is a mystery that many men can't solve. Some believe it's only a myth, like Bigfoot and the Loch Ness Monster; Others think they've found it, but aren't really sure. For those few who actually know where it is, they are considered to be gods among their friends, their girl's friends, and just about anyone who will listen to them tell the tale of one day finding their partner's Holy Grail.

If you haven't figured out where the g spot is, don't worry, you aren't alone. But, if you knew a little about it, maybe you'd have a fighting chance of not only giving your girl the most intense pleasure she's ever known, but also ensuring that she keeps coming back for more.

The g spot is named after a German physician by the name of Ernst Grafenberg. He was the first to describe the elusive spot as "an erotic zone located on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra that would swell during sexual stimulation." It isn't a button that will turn her on as soon as it is pressed and it isn't even a small spot that can only be found with a magnifying glass. It is actually a larger area that responds in a very positive way when it is stimulated. With more room to work with, it should be easier to find, yet what makes it elusive to men is that no one can actually define what the g spot is, or where exactly is it located.

Unfortunately, not all women are completely turned on by g spot stimulation. Some find that it makes them feel as if they have to urinate, which is definitely a mood breaker. Some women feel that the orgasms they have from g spot stimulation are the most intense, while others really don't feel much of a difference at all.

If you decide you want to go exploring and see if you can find your partner's hidden treasure, there is no map you can take with you, and X certainly does not mark the spot. But, many researchers have a theory as to where it actually lies--in the first third of her vaginal wall. Your best bet is just to keep trying; in this case, practice does make perfect. If she is silent--you haven't found it yet.