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With only 18 shopping days left before Christmas you may be feeling a bit desperate about what to buy for your better half. When it comes to holidays, women are expecting something out of the ordinary from you. Despite what you may think, it does not have to have an expensive price tag or be overly romantic. Take notes, because we are giving you some insider gift ideas and tips that will get you in good this holiday season.

1. Apparel. Unless they have specifically shown you the exact dress, shoes or handbag they want, do not venture into this territory. The chances she will like something you picked out on your own are slim. Lingerie should be avoided at all costs if you are still in the single digits of dating, otherwise you will become that creepy guy.

2. Bling. An easy option, but not one you want to venture into lightly. Depending on how long the two of you have been together, this gift can range from a designer keychain to a ring, just make sure that it is authentic and you can never go wrong with something from Tiffany's.

3. Creativity. If you haven't been dating long or if you don't want to spend a lot of money this season, look for fun things to do around town that are holiday related. Plan a surprise date on Christmas Eve to a nice restaurant and then surprise her with ice skating outside or rent a carriage ride through the streets of New York.

4. Culture. If she has ever mentioned a play, show or concert that she has always wanted to attend, the time is now. If the event does not take place soon, just wrap the ticket confirmation as a gift.

5. Electronics. Women like toys too. Be sure to get something that matches her interests; if she loves photography, buy her a digital camera or a photo printer. If she loves music or working out, order an Ipod from Apple and have it custom engraved for free, this way you are personalizing something and getting a gadget you know she'll use.

6. Excitement. If your girl is a daredevil and loves sky diving or extreme sports, look into ordering a gift certificate for the two of you to jump out of planes together or a vacation package that centers around snowboarding or cliff diving.

By following these easy gift guidelines we can ensure that you will be having anything but a silent night.