Taking your girlfriend home to meet your parents can be a crucial turning point in your relationship. However, it is nothing like when you were introduced to her parents. In most cases, women introduce their boyfriend to the family long before a man will even consider it. Before you take her home, consider all the things that could go wrong and how to avoid them.
Talk to your girlfriend post meeting to discuss what should and shouldn't be discussed. Men are less likely to discuss the intimacies of a relationship, like cohabitating and marriage timetables, with their parents so you should take the lead in discussing the status of your relationship, so as not to put you, your girlfriend, and your parents in an awkward position.
Be mindful of how nervous your girl will be. Women are inherently more emotional than men and their minds race. She'll have her mind and stomach in knots long before you arrive at mom and dads house. Help her to relax by making sure to inform her about family quirks and house rules and warn her if your parents are staunch republicans, if your mom's a bit of a diva, or if your dad walks around in his underwear.
In most cases, she'll want to bring a gift. Let her know if you think this is a good idea. Will your parents think she's trying too hard or will they be impressed? Help her with some creative ideas. Wine, flowers, or baked goods are usually good options, but make sure to tell her if your parents don't drink or if your mom has a favorite plant or flower.
Try to avoid being overly affectionate. Even if you're both adults, keep in mind that this is your parents first interaction with the two of you as a couple and affection can be easily misconstrued by the older generation. The last thing you need is your parents thinking your girlfriend's an easy hussy. If you are spending the night, lay off the sex while you are there; this will only create ackward moments for everyone.
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