One of the best ways to get to know a potential girlfriend on a first date is by taking her dinner at a nice, quiet restaurant. Going to a bar or club is fun, but it can keep you from being able to talk and get to know one another. It can also lead to one of you winding up completely wasted and embarrassing yourself. Next time you take your date to dinner, watch for the signs to know if she is into you.


Eyes Only For You

When you walk to your table, watch and see which seat she chooses. If she sits so she can face the entire restaurant, then chances are she will watch what's going around her more than she'll pay attention to you. If she sits so that her only focus is you, she wants to focus on nothing else but you. Watch her eyes while you speak to her; You're golden if she keeps her eyes on you. If she has a tendency to look anywhere but at you, or you catch her rolling her eyes at everything you say, then she might not be that into you.

Eating With Gusto

A woman who feels comfortable with you will be willing to chow down and be herself. She won't stick to just the salad and water, and she certainly won't refuse dessert. However, if she orders the filet mignon with a side of lobster and the priciest dessert on the menu, then she might not really be into you as much as she's into your wallet.

She Isn't Mute

A woman who is into won't just talk about herself. She'll also ask you questions and engage you in conversation that will allow her to learn more about you. A woman who isn't into you will keep the conversation superficial, so she more than likely won't ask you many, if any, personal questions. If she is into you she will ask questions about your family, friends and work and respond with her similar stories.