Who you are in bed can sometimes be directly related to who you are in life. If you are typically shy in public, you might have a hard time talking dirty in the sack. If you are very outgoing normally, you might be the adventurous type who has their own goody drawer (and closet). While you might be a geek on the street, but a freak in the bed; if you feel that your bedroom antics need some heat, here are some simple tips to add some spice.

Change up your nooky repertoire. The same moves and the same positions will get really boring after a while, especially if you have been in the relationship a long time. While it is a positive, because you know each other's bodies, it can also lead to a routine that will not keep her interested after awhile. So, if you want to keep things exciting, next time you're having sex, throw in a new move or two to really spice things up. Use the oracle Google to find some new positions.

Experiment. Talk to her to find out if she has any fantasies, and let her in on some of your own. If she is too shy to say them out loud, ask her to write them for you. While women are very sexual, they don't always like discussing what turns them on out loud. Build up the tension during the day with a little romance; Send her sexy emails throughout the day describing what you want to do to her when you get her alone. Act out her fantasy and don't laugh during it, that will kill the mood for the both of you.

Location, location, location. The saying doesn't just work for real estate. Nothing says boring like always doing it in the same place; hasn't your bed gotten enough action already? Get naughty in the laundry room, use your kitchen table for more than just eating, and, if you can, even try doing it in the back yard under the stars. Knowing it can happen just about anywhere is a turn on and shows that you aren't afraid to take risks. Public places can also be hot, but you could get arrested, so weigh the odds.

Put some X in your sex. Porno stars aren't called stars for nothing. Watch the tapes to get some inspiration.