If you are interested in a woman, casting glances her way at a bar is acceptable and flirtatious. Staring at her for more than 30 seconds is odd and downright creepy once it hits the minute mark. If you want to keep looking, but don't know how, thank the Japanese for thinking up a new DVD that will help you master the look. Miteru dake, which translates to mean "Just Looking," helps even the shyest guy gain more confidence. The secret is in the stare.

A company called Avex just released the DVD that teaches men to be more confident by staring at 50 different women for an hour and a half. Most Japanese men do this already, but instead of the women being in various states of undress, these women are just staring back at you, right in the eye. Don't get too excited, because they don't do anything kinky. Their job is to stare at you, and nothing else.

What you are supposed to do is stare right back at the women--lock eyes with them and not let go until a certain amount of time has passed. The reasoning behind the staring is to help you get over the shyness you feel around women, boost your confidence, and help you to be not so nervous the next time you come face to face with a hottie you want to chat up. Learn how to stare in style for only $25.