Relationship roles are full of stereotypes. Woman want to get married and men fear commitment. So, what happens when the stereotype is inverted?

Contrary to popular belief, not all women are dreaming of a knight in shining armor, weddings, and the suburban family. Some of us are just boys in pretty clothing. We run at the first inkling of commitment, promises of monogamy and mini vacations. Not all of us want the white picket fence in Middle America to raise our toe-haired brood.

So, what happens when your light is on to proceed with caution and test the relationship waters? Women are just as interested in casual dating as their male counterparts. It seems that we all teeter dangerously close to the line; that floss thin, unbalanced chalk line of insecurity. There's a thin line between adventure and fear, peace and war, love and hate, and more importantly--attentive and obstructive.

Let us conquer the stereotype right now. There is such a thing as too much; flattery gets cheesy, compliments make us weary, and over embellished acts of kindness just seem contrived. It is not okay to ask the girl on a mini-vacation two weeks after you started dating, especially one that is set to conquer the Atlantic. You can't whine about feeling neglected before "exclusive" is even a thought. Don't be surprised if she retches in her mouth when you tell her that it will be a story for the grandkids on your third date.

Now, we aren't promoting games. There is a difference between a friendly chase and a pompous game. Remember those lines we talked about. But, it is okay to make us work a little. Some guys may love a chase, but girls relish it.